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06 November 2007

The Benefits of Laughter


“Laughter attracts joy, releases negativity and leads to miraculous cures”
Quote taken from The Secret

I have been reading The Secret. If anyone is really interesting in things like The Law of Attraction which is about attracting into your life whatever it is you want, then this is the book/dvd to get, as well as delving into the Bible where many of the principles from the Secret originate.

I so believe in the above statement. Laughter is truly a healer and a therapeutic ally at the best of times. Yet so many of us cannot even find it within ourselves to smile never mind laugh anymore. We have allowed ourselves to become caught up in the whirlpool of life. Always striving mentally and physically towards the next moment, never quite allowing ourselves to enjoy the present, the here and now. Many are not allowing ourselves the pleasure of just being, and taking time out from the slog of life to enjoy, even to do silly childish things.

I now teach Personal Development workshops to adults and as part of my sessions, I always incorporate a fun event which is usually an activity which we used to play as children. A favourite is the egg and spoon race. On these occasions my groups always have an enormous amount of fun. One piece of feedback that I always receive is that many people hadn’t done such activities since primary school and how much fun it was. It is always so good to see grown up women laughing and falling about themselves in hysterics as they drop the egg or go off balance. Yet life is about being, about exploring about stepping outside of the status quo and that rigid little box that keeps many of us hemmed in. Life is about being free to express ourselves in laughter and song. So below are some of the benefits of laughter which I have found.

1. When you make fun of yourself, you dis-empower those who would make fun of you and disarm possible confrontations.

2. Laughter dissolves tension, stress, anxiety, irritation, anger, grief, and depression. Like crying, laughter lowers inhibitions, allowing the release of pent-up emotions. After a hearty bout of laughter, you will experience a sense of well-being. Simply put, he who laughs, lasts. After all, if you can laugh at it, you can live with it. Remember, a person without a sense of humour is like a car without shock absorbers.

3. Medical researches have found that laughter boosts the immune system. The study of how behaviour and the brain affect the immune system is called psychoneuroimmunology. Though still in its infancy, this science is rapidly gaining much attention as mankind strives to understand the mind-body relationship.

4. Laughter reduces pain by releasing endorphins that are more potent than equivalent amounts of morphine.

5. Humor helps integrate both hemispheres of our brain, for the left hemisphere is used to decipher the verbal content of a joke while the right hemisphere interprets whether it is funny or not.

6. Laughter adds spice to life; it is to life what salt is to a hard-boiled egg.

7. Develop your sense of humour and you will find you are more productive, a better communicator, and a superior team player.

8. Everyone loves someone who can make them laugh. The more you share your sense of humour, the more friends you will have.

9. Humour brings the balance we need to get through the turbulence of life comfortably.

10. Laughter is even equivalent to a small amount of exercise. It massages all the organs of the body, according to Dr. James Walsh.

11. A sense of humour can help you accept the inevitable, rise to any challenge, handle the unexpected with ease, and come out of any difficulty smiling.


“Have you ever noticed that anybody driving slower than you is an idiot, and anyone going faster than you is a maniac?”
George Carlin



“When you become senile, you won't know it.”
Bill Cosby



"Did you ever see the customers in health-food stores? They are pale, skinny people who look half dead. In a steak house, you see robust, ruddy people. They're dying, of course, but they look terrific.”
Bill Cosby

Growth


Dear All

I have been immersing myself in many books this past year, all to do with personal development, psychology and philosophy. This is my forte, and where the basis of all my interests lie. I am always eager to learn and understand how people work, how the universe works, how we can achieve and enjoy life to its fullest and how to help individuals reach their full potential.

For me, my life’s experiences coupled with the knowledge gained from books read and conversations had, are all helping me in the great discovery of life. This not only helps me in the understanding of knowing and understanding myself intimately but also being able to understand the workings of the human race and ultimately how to help and reach out to others.

I do not presume to be a mind reader, nor am I a qualified Psychologist, yet I find that the more I work on myself and begin to understand myself, the more I open up myself to the many possibilities the universe and God has to offer. The more I connect with this one true source and with who I am, is the more I am beginning to understand this world on a much greater basis.

I have grown so much over the past year. My journey has been an incredible one and now I am on such a spiritual level that when I am being led or guided, 95% of the time I am right with any decisions I make.

I have been going through some incredible spiritual changes, changes that have actually left me operating on another dimension, leaving me with a sharper sense of knowing, a clearer sense of who I am, of people and circumstances around me. I am now operating at a level where I am reading people, being able to see and know what is going on inside of them, knowing when things are going to happen, and knowing what to do.

Of the extraordinary experiences I have had was one where I picked up what someone else was thinking and even to the point of visualising an individual they were thinking about, describing that person in detail. I say no more on that part other than, so many of us are operating on a fraction of the possibilities that we could be more. So many of us will never be able to fathom how powerful we really are as human beings and the source of energy and abundance that God has provided us which is seated within us.

We are incredible human beings – every single one of us. Yet what I realise and always advocate is that there will be some of us who want to build empires and know what must be done to achieve this. There will be others, who are quite comfortable just reaching for the stars, not quite wanting to get there, but just wanting to dream it. Then there are those who are happy and content being where they are and this is all ok. Whatever you want in life, is yours for the taking. Whatever status you wish to hold, whatever path you want to take, however high you want to climb that mountain – you hold the keys to your destiny. Your destiny may be to be a listener, a carer, a role model, a wonderful friend to the homeless. Your destiny may be to start a campaign making people stand up and take note of something important and life threatening. Your destiny may be that of being another Dr Martin Luther King. Whatever it is, that is your piece of treasure to hold onto and cherish and work towards and remember – it doesn’t matter what status you have or how many certificates or letters you have after your name – being someone is not about materialistic status, being someone is being who you are and loving what you do and operating on a level of honesty, integrity, respect and love.

Yet, what I have realised on this journey is that being in a deeply spiritual place where one is in alignment with God, where one is in alignment with oneself on an intimate and knowing level, is a very very powerful place to be. I sense this power within me and believe me, I will have to use it wisely.

Through meditation which I do everyday now – I am able to shut myself off from the outside world and just be, in the silence or in the midst of meditative music, just be. I am therefore afforded the luxury of enjoying a calmness and peace that settles over me as I just be, releasing myself momentarily from the treadmill of life. This time also gives me the space to reflect, to delve inside myself to find answers and the ramblings of my mind – getting rid of any anxieties or negative tendencies.

On that note therefore, I would like to leave you with these wonderful quotes:

“Faith has to do with things that are not seen, and hope with things that are not in hand.”
- Saint Thomas Aquinas


“For now we see through a glass, darkly, but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.”
- I Corinthians 13: 12-13

“Every man has in himself a continent of undiscovered character. Happy is he who acts the Columbus to his own soul.”
- Sir J. Stephen

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